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Sunday

How to Make Strong Flirting Eye Contact

Eye contact is one of the most powerful tools any man can use when attracting and seducing a woman. Strong eye contact is rare. If you make eye contact, you’d be surprised how quickly most people’s eyes will dart away.
There are a few key aspects about eye contact between a man and a woman that will either have them instantly attracted to you, or instantly repelled. This is, in many cases, the first quality that will demonstrate either high or low value to a woman.
Strong eye contact will turn a girl on. It shows that you are comfortable with yourself and others. A true alpha male will never break eye contact first, whether it be with a man or a woman.
When you make eyes with a woman, never break eye contact first. Even if it has been 10 seconds (which is an Eternity when staring into the eyes of a stranger) do NOT BREAK. If anything, at that point you could stick your tongue out or something silly to break the sexual tension.

This might be very hard for you at first, but there is a simple task you can do which will give you strong eye contact skills. Walk around and make eye contact with everyone. Never break first. If its a guy chances are he’ll just look away, or if he holds it for a while usually a “whats up man” will follow as you pass. If a guy gets serious with you saying something dumb like “what are you lookin at buddy” just say “thought you were an old friend" or something along those lines.
Doing this with girls is fun. Whatever reaction she gives you, you can feel free to give back. If you get a smile, give a smile. If you get a hi, give a hi. Confident girls will hold eye contact and almost always smile. Unconfident girls will look away. Work on this every day and you will have strong flirting eye contact skills, possibly the most important tool for picking up girls.

Friday

Dress for Success


Your clothes are an expression of you. Everything you wear is an expression – from your socks and jocks to your frocks – it is an expression of you. Ask yourself now, what do your clothes say about you? Do they scream “success!” or do they say “yeah, right!”?
You have your own vision of success. For a few moments, close your eyes and visualise what you would be wearing if you were successful. What would you wear to work? What about on the weekends? How about on the sports ground? What about at night?
How do you see yourself? Do you see yourself as having those clothes now? Chances are that you may not, or only partially have. The secret to power dressing is to dress now, who you wish to become. If you’re a junior accountant, and you want to be a partner in your firm, then you need to dress like that now. There’s a two-fold reason why: firstly, it oozes confidence and self-esteem and I guarantee people will do a double take. Secondly, it starts creating it in your life via the subconscious mind, and increases the desire to want to get there.
So, now for the fun things. Go to your wardrobe and start identifying the clothing that scream “success!” Toss the rest of them in a pile and give them away or donate them to charity. If you don’t have the clothes there that make you look and feel good, then guess what? You need to go out and buy them. It doesn’t have to be really expensive or involve maxing out the credit cards, but it does have to be of good quality, something that will make you proud of wearing it, something that will make you feel like royalty, something that will make you feel like a million bucks! Be financially responsible here too – this isn’t a license to spend your life savings or refinance your house to look good. If you need to save up then go out and put a lay-by on the clothes you want.